Looking back at the past, I cannot imagine how I've come so far.It's been more than a decade of ups and downs, like a roller coaster ride.

You don't exactly end up like you planned because things happen even right in the middle of the journey...and so you shift to another plan hoping it could workout in the end.

Nothing's fixed, everything is negotiable...and you deal with the fact that nothing's permanent... even when you swear that they will be...

We exist in a society where men still regard women as just second class citizens bound for the kitchen, the toilet, and the bedroom. 

We are delegated caregivers to everyone. Ironically no one is delegated to be our caregivers.  

But we make our choices...choices that either strengthen us or choices that make us lose ourselves leaving ourselves unrecognizable to our selves.But we still plunge into the unknown, throwing all cares or doubts.

We get all sorts of names- from the most divine to the abhorred.We may not be physically beaten but what's worst than neglect?What's worst than when you're taken for granted? Or getting replaced even as you still exist?

But women are so good at not loosing composure.Not loosing courage.Women are experts at regaining strength, getting back on track. In fact, we become strongest at the weakest point in our life...women are not just wierd, they are gifted.